Who Meets YOUR Needs
“What makes a happy marriage? It is a question which all men and women ask one another…. The answer is to be found, I think, in the mutual discovery, by two who marry, of the deepest need of the other’s personality, and the satisfaction of that need.”
— Pearl S. Buck
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Each of us spends all the time it takes getting our deepest need(s) met. We cannot do anything until those needs are met … and get them met DAILY (if not more often). If they are not met naturally, we will use control and manipulation to get them met.
A very important way to grow … to get your life moving again to … to increase your happiness … is to get ones deepest need(s) met … and met NATURALLY! So there is no manipulation and controlling on your part and no resentment and anger on the part of the other person.
If there is manipulation and control in your relationship, consider what needs are not being met. This single realization, and improvement in this area, can move one from where you are forward to a greatly improved relationship.
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